Pat Aherne
Honarary Grand Marshal
Pat Aherne was born in Drominarigle, Newmarket, County Cork on March 27, 1946, to Dan and Elizabeth (Daly) Aherne. He was the eighth child in a family of 16 (8 boys and 8 girls). Some of Pat’s fondest memories growing up were playing football with his siblings in front of the house and his father piling them into a wagon to head off to watch a match. When he was old enough, he enjoyed playing alongside his brothers for their local team, Boherbue.
Pat attended school until he was 16 and then went to work as a carpenter’s apprentice. It was a privilege at that time to be taken on as an apprentice, but after two years Pat was tired of working for little or no money. Jobs were very scarce in Ireland and he decided it was time to head to America.
In 1964, he left Shannon Airport with Jim Kennelly (RIP) as his guide and landed in San Francisco to join his sisters Betty & Tess, while brother Dan was serving in the U.S. Army. Younger siblings Bridget, Chris and Kate would follow on in the years to come.
Pat missed home, but shortly after arriving he began his long involvement with the Irish community in San Francisco. He started playing football for the local Cork team and joined the Rebel Cork Benevolent Association. He found work as a carpenter and lived in an apartment building on Stanyan St. occupied by young Irish. Later, he would move out to 18th Avenue in St. Anne’s parish and lived with Mike Brosnan, Dan McAuliffe, Ed Sullivan & Neil Murphy.
In 1965, Pat met the love of his life Ann Moriarty at a dance at St. Johns. They spent weekends going to dances at the KRB, Mercury and Richmond Halls, the Carousel Ballroom and benefits at Picketts. Sundays were spent at Balboa Stadium watching and playing GAA. Pat played for Cork until the team folded and then played for Kerry. Ever the dutiful boyfriend, Pat was supportive of Ann in her endeavors as well. She was very busy with performing and competing for the Ann Healy School of Irish Dancing and playing the bagpipes in the Kennedy Girls Pipe Band, started by the legendary Sheila Brosnan. Pat & Ann loved going to the Irish picnics, whether it was just for fun or he was working setting up the dance floor and bartending.
Pat & Ann were married in 1968 and together they raised 3 children. Patrick, Jim and Eileen. Over the years, Pat worked as a carpenter for Brosnan Brothers and when the economy slowed, he moved on to the Moore Manufacturing, working with Dan McAuliffe and John Singleton. In his spare time, he enjoyed playing softball for a team out of Hennessey’s Bar (now O’Keefe’s) with the likes of Sean Kerrisk (RIP), Sean Healy, Mike Gallagher, Denis Mehigan and Mike Driscoll.
After Pat became disabled by a serious auto accident in 1977, Ann went back to work and he became the original Mr. Mom. Pat loved fixing things and always had some elaborate project to keep him busy. Pat & Ann enjoyed annual vacations to Pine Grove on Cobb Mountain, playing games of 25 by the pool by day and gathering at Irish families’ cabins at night.
Pat was always very proud of his three children and four grandchildren and faithfully attended each and every game of soccer, basketball, baseball, lacrosse and wrestling. Patrick and Jim graduated from St. Ignatius and Eileen went to St. Rose and Notre Dame Belmont. Patrick married Martina Colombo in 1995 and they have two children, Erin (23) and Aidan (19). Patrick recently retired from the Hillsborough Police Department and Martina is a nurse at Ralph K. Davies. Jim married Erica Terry in 2000 and is a San Francisco Police Captain, while Erica works at UCSF Hospital. Eileen married Mayo man Bertie Penny and they have two children, Ronan (18) and Sarah (15). Bertie is a general contractor and Eileen is a stay-at-home mom and manages Bertie’s paperwork. Bertie is President of the Gaelic Athletic Association here in San Francisco, so the family tradition carries on.
Pat was an adventurous grandfather. With his grandchildren, he enjoyed walks on San Bruno Mountain picking blackberries and exploring nature. There were trips to the zoo and aquarium, along with weekends away to Gilroy Gardens. There were sleepovers and mornings at the kitchen table, looking out the window for hummingbirds and Pat’s favorite pet, the coyote.
It was always Pat’s dream to have youth Gaelic football in San Francisco and he was a founding board member of the SFYGAA. He also coached his children’s teams and more recently coached his granddaughter’s soccer team. He was his children’s and grandchildren’s biggest cheerleader in every facet of life.
Pat and Ann welcomed countless Irish visitors into their home. There were many visits by his numerous nieces and nephews, always welcome and well taken care of by Uncle Pat. He helped many J1ers find work and places to stay. Many have become lifelong friends. Pat was a proud member and past President of the Rebel Cork Benevolent Association. He was a member of the UICC even before the Center was built. He was also a member of the Kerry Club.
Pat enjoyed hunting pheasant with his longtime friends Brendan Looney (RIP), Dan McAuliffe and Ger Murphy. He liked stirring the pot and talking politics with Denis Guiney.
He loved Ireland but was a proud American citizen. Pat loved his family and was very affectionate and did not hesitate to show it. He was open-minded yet never afraid to share his opinion.